My Personality? I have been described by other people as charming, sincere, open-minded, sensual, passionate, fun-loving, and when the moment is right with my companion, very "wild". I am very attentive and giving and I will take the time to make you feel comfortable and will take the effort to ensure that you enjoy every moment of our meeting.

The photos on this site are genuine, so you can see at a glance that you will enjoy my company.

I believe that working in a brothel or for an escort agency is not for me. I am unable to cope with the regimentation and foibles of owners and I don't like the fact that I really can't refuse to see a particular person when working in those situations. Then there is the vexed question of "the split"... not to mention the pressure to "watch the clock". I also feel the importance of seeing only one individual in any given 24 hour period, anything else would be less than fair on clients, in my opinion, as I like to be fresh, bursting with energy and sexual enthusiasm on EVERY occasion.

So having opted to work for myself, I have decided to use the internet to let people know about my service and for them to make contact with me initially by email. This is both convenient and secure.

I do not advertise in the papers our tourist publications as I have a fundamental objection to giving Rupert Murdoch any more money (in Sydney virtually the only papers who will accept Adult Services classifieds are owned by News Ltd.) for expensive advertisements that attract calls from time wasters who think I will provide them with the same service as a phone sex line but for free.

Once we have exchanged emails and you are going to make or have made a tentative appointment, you will have to provide me with your full name and telephone number, if needed. If you are using a hotmail, yahoo or similar email account, I need to be sure of your real name, not your cyber identity. I ask you to email me 48 to 24 hours prior to the final meeting to confirm that arrangements have not changed. As people's circumstances can change and to ensure your privacy, I generally will never initiate emails or phone calls unless previously arranged, even to confirm a tentative booking.

I do not like to "chase" clients and on that note, will never initiate an email after a meeting, even if for just friendly reasons you ask me occasionally to "drop a line". Again your privacy is highly respected by me. As grateful as I may be in enjoying our time together, I will not email you except to reply to your emails.

If I am going to meet you in a hotel you will have tell its name and your room number. I will then contact you in your room before our appointment and speak with you to make the final arrangements.

s all this necessary?

Well, yes. I am a private escort. Whilst I have security arrangements in place, I don't turn up at the location of our appointment with a "driver" who will attract either the attention of your neighbours while sitting in a car outside your house or the knowing looks of the hotel staff whilst sitting in the lobby. It is important for both of us that I arrive at our meeting confident and untroubled by any worries - then we will have a very nice and sexy time.

Also there is nothing worse for me than to front up at a hotel room to be confronted by a elderly man in a clerical collar answering my knock with a sleepy partner calling out from inside the room, "Who is it dear?" There are funsters around who think it is hilarious to arrange for escorts to turn up as a "surprise" for someone they know. You only let it happen to you once.

After our meeting you will not hear from me again unless you want to see me again or you want to keep in touch by email. I do not have either the time or inclination to pursue clients in any way after the meeting.

If you are not cool with my way of ensuring my security, please don't ask me to vary my procedures. I won't.

I will arrive at our agreed meeting place at the appointed time. I will not be more than a few minutes late. Usually I will arrive at the meeting dressed in a business suit or if it's a weekend or your request, perhaps something more casual. If we are going to a fine restaurant let me know so I dress appropriately. To all intents and purposes it will appear that we are having a business discussion or on a weekend, a pleasant get-together. We might meet in the hotel bar or a café nearby. We can have a drink and a chat. If for some reason you prefer not to proceed at this stage, then that is fine. There will be no mandatory charge at all, but a gentleman or lady might offer a contribution to my travel expenses and preparation time to this point - shall we say $200 (a lot of time goes into myself getting ready for a great encounter and whilst this hardly truly reflects the time, it helps).

If we are both comfortable with each other, you will go up to your room and I will follow you a few minutes later.

Sometimes I am treated to dinner prior to our more intimate engagement, and in the spirit of "dating" an admirer this can be invaluable in helping the two of us to "connect" and build up to "the Magic". More on dinner dates later.

Once we are inside the room, and as soon as possible after my arrival so as not to break the mood, we will take care of the financial side of things. So as to keep things as comfortable as possible, please have the agreed payment prepared discreetly inside an open envelope and hand it to me within the first few minutes of my arrival, or leave it in a fairly obvious place in the room. This is sometimes forgotten and I just hate to ask.

Thereafter, matters will generally take care of themselves... but if you "haven't done this kind of thing before" I will try to set out a typical meeting....

I like to provide a "girlfriend" type service (unless of course, you have a preference for something "naughty raunchy", then of course I will oblige). What I mean by this is that things will proceed naturally. I want us to have a pleasant and enjoyable time. My minimum bookable time is two hours (but preferred three) because I find it absolutely impossible to have any sort of what I would call a "meeting of the minds" or at least some level of human interaction that will assist with the making the forthcoming sexual experience the best it can be. I have tried a minimum booking time of ninety minutes but that can seem "rushed".

Because my minimum booking is for two hours (I do prefer at least three hours, but heck, I do understand that isn't always possible), there is no need to get naked straight away (unless you want to). The clock starts ticking only when money has changed hands. We could kiss and cuddle for a while and then when we are ready we will get undressed and go and have a shower together - this ensures that we are both really fresh and clean and able to explore each other completely.

Generally I find that gentlemen like me to start by continuing to kiss their body whilst they lie on the bed. Eventually I just happen to find myself at the level of their penis. At this point I will generally be able to perform natural oral sex (fellatio or french sex). I can keep stimulating you orally for as long as you wish even to the point of ejaculation. If you wish to give me oral stimulation either simultaneously (69) or simply go down on me (cunnilingus) - then you should know I love this.

I do not mind you kissing and touching me anywhere, just so long as you are gentle and responsive to my needs. I will show you how I like to be stimulated (and tell you clearly what I don't like) and if you do it the right way I will probably have an orgasm. I have been told by some clients that they find this to be a real turn on.

You will be able to come to orgasm as often as you wish or are able to during our session and I hope that I will be able to climax myself several times.

I will bring along my collection of vibrators and if you wish I can use it on myself or I will guide you in using it on me. I usually don't involve sex toys in a meeting unless asked by you. I see sex toys as an accessory, not an essential component of good sex. If you need me to bring anything else (music, special lingerie, etc,) just let me know by email and don't forget to remind me just before our meeting. I try my best not to forget.

I will not allow anal penetration (greek) in any circumstances.

Rest assured that I do not expect you to be a sexual athlete. If it works out that you are only able to come to orgasm once during our visit then that's the way it is. However, I will be doing my best to please you for the full time of the booking and ensure that you enjoy yourself as much as possible. But if all you want to do is unwind, or talk, watch a movie, have a spa or even have something to eat, I will be very content with this.

If I am meeting a couple all the above activities will occur as appropriate. I am very comfortable with giving and receiving oral sex with a lady. I do not charge any extra for seeing couples.

Because I limit my appointments to one per day and no more than 3 in a week, I generally find that I am naturally "wet" and do not need to use an artificial lubricant but I do bring along a tube just in case.

I am not interested in being involved in the following activities: bondage (even light), discipline, golden showers/pissing, scat/shitting, dressing up in private or public and your own sex toys (I will use mine). I will not allow photography (either still or video) of myself. There may be other activities which I have not mentioned but which you would like to try - please discuss them with me by email or when I phone you. All our sexual activities must be consensual.

And if you are a couple?

Again, I am comfortable in being part of a threesome or a "menage a trois". I particularly enjoy being touched by and touching the soft skin of a lady and never need to pretend in my actions, which unfortunately is a common occurrence with some ladies, I am told. Kissing a lady is divine!

Many couples have a fantasy about such a setting and I know how to please two at once! (or be pleased by two at once as well!). Sometimes the fantasy is just for the guy to just watch his partner and me enjoying lesbian love, or indeed, the lady to watch me with her partner. Please email me and ask me any questions about your or your partner's desires! I know it can be a delicate situation for a couple who otherwise have a very strong sexual relationship and making the "first move" is a hard one. I think you will find that meeting with me is possibly better than venturing to one of those "swinging clubs". Hiring a private escort can certainly help if jealousy is considered to be a problem. The sex I may have with one or both partners is entirely as part of a business transaction (albeit an enjoyable one) and there are no "strings attached".

The actual scenario of a meeting when it involves a couple varies widely. Depending on the desires of the couple, in particular the lady, I may initiate the intimate touch with the lady, perhaps starting with a nice shower together to help us both relax. The gentleman may just wish to watch our little adventure and at the appropriate time, join in. If you are a couple who have never experienced another person in your intimate life, you can be very relaxed with me as I will only do things that you BOTH desire.

It is important that both the lady and gentleman are fully aware of what will happen at the meeting, and the meeting is known to both parties prior to it happening. For this reason, I insist that I have email exchange with both people so that I can be sure that both of you are comfortable with the situation. The last thing I would want is a surprise for either party even if it is done with good intention.

I enjoy my time with my clients very much and love to be in the company of interesting and exciting gentlemen that I would otherwise not have the opportunity of meeting. For the most part they are ordinary cool guys with happy lives. They are not repulsive or inadequate, or sexually frustrated, or lonely or psychopaths. They are just looking for an experience that is outside of the boundaries of the normal run. I can provide that for them - without strings attached. In the case of couples, they are usually in the lady's case curious about having sex with another woman whilst the man is able to fulfil a fantasy that most guys seem to have - that of having a threesome.

Moreover, I find that the special attention that I receive from my clients, those very special kisses and of course, the earth-shattering orgasms that I often have, very enjoyable indeed. And I believe many clients are grateful that I am not an inexperienced young waif who cannot carry on a conversation or really know how to connect with a client.

The ability to provide total sexual pleasure to my client is indeed satisfying to me. I never really knew what impact I could have on clients and initially thought just giving sexual pleasure to the client during a meeting was the main aim, but sometimes its not just about "the orgasm" . Sometimes I can help give a client the reassurance they need, to know that they can truly get close to a woman "again" or even for the first time. Sometimes it's about being able to satisfy a need which I have heard termed "skin hunger" - the need to touch and be touched, to caress and be carressed...to interact with another individual. When we are both in the mood and everything is "right"

Having said the above, don't worry, if what you're hoping for is a few hours of hot raunchy sex with no emotional connection, lots of panting, licking, teasing, massaging, playing, mutual oral, multiple orgasms etc etc. then let's get together and have a wild time!



Curious about meeting an escort but never indulged before?

I have often had the privilege of introducing men and couples to the concept of enjoying the company of an escort. Don't worry, I will initiate things if you need me too and I am very gentle and understanding if you are indeed nervous about the meeting. Understandable and I will relax you. I have experienced years of business travel myself in the past and know what it is like to feel a little lonely in your hotel room after a stressed work day in another town. Sometimes you just can't help but desire the touch of a woman on such a night. (ok, in more frank speak, you get horny). So, what are one's choices? Well, you could try the lottery of the phone book or adult directory once you get to the hotel. But why not plan ahead, and feel comfortable after some email exchange and arrange meet a lovely lady ahead of time. It is more personal and it makes sense. (Don't worry, if business plans change or indeed its not going to happen on THAT night, I am very understanding and "maybe next time").



Seduce me and I will seduce you in return

Without choreography and with a very natural sensuality, let me take you on an erotic and adventure during our meeting. But, as the old saying goes, "it takes 2 to tango" so seduce me too!

Safe Sex

I am often asked about safe sex practices. It is very important to me, and everyone who I met. People vary widely in their opinions on what is acceptable and will always meet my clients' wishes where possible. Of course, without question or discussion, all penetrative activities must be done with the use of a condom. If you prefer not to meet with an escort who may indulge in natural oral with a client then we best not arrange to meet.

After the meeting...

Once I have been with a guy (or couple) I find that I can quite happily continue my life without ever seeing them again. If they want to see me again (and many of them do) and I am comfortable with that, then off we go again with the same rules of the game applying... As said before, I will not initiate emails with clients after a meeting. Discretion is assured.

If you have further queries about escorts and the etiquette associated with them, read this US based resource.

Perfect sex?...

If you have any further queries, would like to make an enquiry about an appointment or just want to say "hi" please email me brittany@aladyforyou.com or more "confidentially" alfy3000@yahoo.com

Many frequently asked questions are answered in my FAQ page.

I am interested in hearing from bona fide private escorts anywhere with a view to exchanging notes and links.